Relationship: What if your partner is in doubt?
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A crisis within the relationship or marriage is serious, but how serious is it when your loved one is in a relationship crisis and has doubts about your relationship? What is a possible cause of a crisis? What advice do experts give when your partner is in doubt? What are the experiences of other partners whose partners were in doubt?
Crisis
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About a quarter of the Dutch population will sooner or later go through a crisis in his (or her) life, the life crisis described as:
Partner
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It is tough for the doubter's steady partner: the life they have built together suddenly collapses like a house of cards. There is also not much information on this subject that the doubter's partner can find support and understanding. The doubter's partner has to do with:
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11 minMain dishpeanut oil, tofu stir-fry cubes finely seasoned, stir fry sauce sweet and sour, thick noodles, carrot julienne, beetroot julienne, yellow bell pepper, watercress,rainbow salad with tofu -
45 minMain dishRed cabbage, mild olive oil, quinoa plus, forest outing, lemon, sesame oil, soy sauce less salt, Bio Today tahini white in pot, tap water,grilled red cabbage with quinoa salad -
30 minDessertBrie, Roquefort, port salut, gruyere, Camembert, walnut, garlic, thyme, honey, grape, baguette, Red onion, red grape, raisins, Red wine, Red wine vinegar, Brown sugar,generous cheese plate with onion marmalade -
30 minDessertFull Milk, whipped cream, macaroon, custard powder, vanilla sugar, sugar, protein, amaretto, almond liqueur, basic recipe cooking pears,macaroon pastry with casserole
Relationship
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Once one of the partners is unhappy or in doubt, your relationship is no longer ideal. Maybe the relationship was ideal for you before. Experts (Psychologist Nienke Wijnants), however, claim that if you hold on to the thoughts that the relationship was ideal before, you would not take the complaint of your doubting partner that something must change seriously enough. According to expert psychologist Mira Kirschenbaum, it's important for you to empathize with what your partner is going through right now. Easily said then done, because your partner's life is turned upside down by the doubt, but your life too!
Person in crisis
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What is your partner going through while he (or she) has doubts about your relationship? According to some psychologists, it is very important that the partner of the person who has such doubts knows how the doubting partner feels during a crisis:
Experiences
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Partners of doubting partners have had the following experiences:
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5 minDrink without alcoholbananas, cool fresh apple-pear raspberry juice, Soy drink vanilla,soy fruit shake -
20 minMain dishsauerkraut, sticking potato, liquid baking product, half-to-half minced, Spice meatballs, pineapple, olive oil, liquid baking product,gratin sauerkraut dish with minced meat -
40 minMain dishlemongrass, fresh ginger, Red peppers, onions, tomato cubes, fresh cod fillet, coriander, oil, ground turmeric (koenjit), coconut milk, salt,fish in creamy coconut sauce -
15 minSide dishsweet potato, soft goat cheese, egg, spring / forest onion,stuffed sweet potato with egg
Difficult
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It is extremely difficult for the steady partner whose partnet has doubts about the relationship and is in crisis to be a good friend during your partner's crisis. Your own world is also completely upside down and yet you will have to do your best for your partner:
In love with someone else
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And here we come to a very big problem: because of the impotence and the feeling of not being understood, we are very variable during such a great crisis: to fall in love with someone else ! This other person can meet the need for an objective interlocutor, but also the doubter's partner can, if the crisis lasts for a long time, also feel a need for an outlet and fall in love with another!
Solution
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The partners need for an objective interlocutor during the relationship crisis can very well be fulfilled by a:
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20 minMain dishTasty vine tomato, (olive oil, fresh basil, onion, garlic, Parmigiano Reggiano, zucchini spaghetti, pumpkin spaghetti, mini buffalo mozzarella,lukewarm pumpkin and zucchini spaghetti -
15 minSide dishtraditional olive oil, curry powder, wheat flour, coconut milk, sambal oelek, chicken broth tablet, water, fresh mango,curry sauce with mango -
30 minMain dishtraditional olive oil, lean ground beef, frozen Mexican wok vegetables, salsa sauce mild, taco shell, grated young cheese, creme fraiche,Mexican vegetable in tacos -
95 minMain dishmaize chicken, lemon, coarse sea salt, pepper, extra virgin olive oil, garlic, thyme, zucchini, tomatoes (small to), black olives without pit,provençal chicken with zucchini and tomatoes
Identity crisis
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Want to know more about the subject of identity crisis? The following psychologists have written some books about it: